I feel your pain. Our two Russian blues not only try to relentlessly sneak into our bed, they have been known to spoon us while my husband and I are watching TV and, when we are gone to long, will be sitting and waiting for us at the bottom of the stairs, viewing us disapprovingly with unblinking stares when we get back. Of course, we could set better limits but - here's the rub - while we sometimes get annoyed (and hot with all that fur pressed against us!) we also love it.