First of all, the responsibility for Stephen Collins' allegedly criminal behavior lies 100% at his doorstep. If true, it is a shame he never did any prison time for it.

But I also cannot put my head in the sand and overlook a spouse who I don't think for a minute actually believed his lame-ass hole-in-the-crotch-of-my-pants excuse (apparently given in 2000), stayed with him after the birth of their daughter in spite of the extremely alarming sexual comment he allegedly made to his then-wife at their daughter's birth in 1989. and was "blindsided" and "devastated" when he was the one to file for divorce in 2012. Why is it that all this only came to light in the midst of an ugly divorce?